
Perhaps these thoughts are familiar to you: “I want to lose weight, but I don't know how,” or “I know what I have to do, but I can't do it.”
When we think about losing weight, we often visualize the final result: X pounds less, the dream state, the destination. But our brain cannot produce a result simply because we wish for it. This can quickly lead to stress, frustration, and demotivation. The problem is not your willpower, but the lack of a clear process.
In this article, let's explore concrete tips together to start and progress on this journey in a sustainable and peaceful way.
Imagine your goal as a GPS destination. You can enter the final address, but without a route, you will never reach your destination. The brain works exactly the same way: it is very effective at following a clear path, composed of concrete steps. By defining these small goals, you transform your desires into realistic actions, and you will be able to maintain them in the long term.
You have surely already heard of the famous principle of energy deficit (or calorie deficit), which is essential for losing weight. But knowing that it is necessary is not enough: the important thing is to focus on what you can truly do and control to achieve it. This will allow you to move forward gradually, at your own pace, without giving up along the way.
1. Become aware of your current habits
Before wanting to change, it is essential to observe. Here are some things you can pay attention to:
For a few days, simply note your habits. Not to criticize yourself, but to understand where you are starting from. A registered dietitian nutritionist can help you sort through all this information and establish priorities, to start with the changes that will have the most impact for you.
2. Take one small action at a time
Wanting to change everything at once is one of the main causes of abandonment. To start a sustainable weight loss process, choose a first priority action to take: for example, adding a more satisfying breakfast, planning two walks per week, cooking one more homemade meal, or going to bed 30 minutes earlier.
This first action becomes the foundation of the process. Subsequently, we add a new one, and little by little, we move forward: one victory at a time. It is the accumulation of all these strategies that will ultimately have an impact.
Set SMART goals to advance effectively
To transform your intentions into concrete actions, formulate your goals according to the SMART method:
By applying this method, each step becomes a clear and achievable goal. You can thus accumulate progressive successes, without feeling overwhelmed, and move forward in a structured and sustainable way towards your overall goal.
3. Structure the environment
Change does not rely solely on individual willpower. The environment plays a determining role in our behaviors. By making your goals more accessible, visible, and integrated into daily life, they become easier to adopt and more natural to maintain. For example:
4. Accept that the process precedes motivation
Contrary to popular belief, motivation is not always the starting point. Often, it appears after the first actions. By taking the first actions, even without absolute motivation, you create a momentum, that dynamic that makes each subsequent step easier to take.
The brain reacts positively to concrete action: each small victory generates satisfaction and reinforces your commitment. As you accumulate these small successes, motivation strengthens itself. It then becomes a side effect of your actions, and not a prerequisite.
5. Surround yourself and ask for help
Starting a weight loss process alone can be complex and intimidating, especially facing habits that are already well-established. Seeking support can help you highlight what is truly important to you, distinguish what makes a real difference in your habits, and see more clearly what actions will have the most impact on your progress. A registered dietitian nutritionist can help you to:
By focusing on the process rather than the result, you regain control. Stress decreases, motivation becomes more stable, and weight loss becomes part of a long-term well-being approach. The result will surely come, provided you advance one step at a time. To confidently start this process and benefit from personalized support adapted to your reality, book an appointment with a registered dietitian nutritionist.
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